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[00:00:01] Speaker A: A quick snack? A quick snack. Just a snack. [00:00:12] Speaker B: All right. [00:00:13] Speaker A: Hello, hello, hello. Hello, wonderful people. [00:00:15] Speaker B: Hi. Hi. How are you? [00:00:16] Speaker A: Hello, beautiful people. Welcome back to our podcast. [00:00:20] Speaker B: Our Issachai sounds straight. Amen. [00:00:23] Speaker A: And on this podcast, we talk about everything that interests us from From Anime to TikTok to Reddit to current news to current news. So if you like what you hear, give us a like and follow. And without further ado, I am your magnificently overpowered host, Uchenna. [00:00:40] Speaker B: And I am sa the same days. [00:00:42] Speaker A: And together we are. [00:00:46] Speaker B: See, I want to call us magical girls, which means I want to be a magical girl. [00:00:49] Speaker A: With me. So what do we need? A prize? You reckon we need a prize? [00:00:57] Speaker B: No, we're not magical girls, apparently. Apparently. [00:00:59] Speaker A: Look, if you want to be a magical girl. [00:01:01] Speaker B: What? [00:01:01] Speaker A: Baby, you are already magical, but you need a wand if you're going to be a magical girl. [00:01:07] Speaker B: Oh, I can't do that. [00:01:08] Speaker A: Why not? [00:01:09] Speaker B: I know. [00:01:13] Speaker A: I guess she's not a magical girl because if she was a magical girl, she would have jumped in this particular opportunity. [00:01:17] Speaker B: But no, because what magical girl do. [00:01:19] Speaker A: You know has won them dolls from that show? They have a one Sailor Moon. [00:01:23] Speaker B: Yeah, I don't want to be a Sailor Moon one. [00:01:25] Speaker A: So which one do you want? [00:01:27] Speaker B: Which? Actually, no, not that one. [00:01:32] Speaker A: Okay. Do they have ones? [00:01:36] Speaker B: Not all of them. Now let me, let me get a picture. I don't think I do. [00:01:39] Speaker A: Okay. Anyway, right, so today, anyway, our main thing, we're gonna do like a trending topic of sorts. Right. For our topic today. And it's mainly going to be like a. Did you hear? Did you see TikTok edition? Right. Because I'm very curious as to like, do we all have the same FYP or like, should we make it like our FYP is the same, you know? But anyway, it's basically things that we've seen on Tick Tock recently that's kind of just flabbergasted us. And yeah, we just thought we'd talk about it because there's been a lot. There has been a lot. Okay, do you want to go first? [00:02:18] Speaker B: The first one that I saw is the one I sent you about this. It's a girl that's singing a song about her current life where she's. Her boyfriend's told her that she. That he wants to move closer to moving with his family. [00:02:29] Speaker A: Yeah, just another notice. We will try to put like their usernames and their logs on the thing wherever, so they can also because to agency them. [00:02:39] Speaker B: So this girl. So her boyfriend tells her, oh, I Want to move closer to culture. Yeah. Blanket. [00:02:45] Speaker A: No, no, it's not. It's just a shiver. I think someone's thinking about me. [00:02:49] Speaker B: Oh, secret man. Is it? Is it really? Do. Do you have one? [00:03:00] Speaker A: It's a secret admirer. I'm not going to know if they admire me secretly. That's why he's a secret. If I knew they admired me, it wouldn't be a secret. So. Yeah. Okay, I'll take this off. [00:03:11] Speaker B: I did say my ears. [00:03:14] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:03:14] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay, take it now because now we know how mics work anyway. [00:03:18] Speaker A: Yes. [00:03:20] Speaker B: So as I was saying. So the movie. She quits her job, uses all her savings, say bye to her closest friends, UPS and moves her lives to Texas to be close. Because her boyfriend says, closer to my family. [00:03:32] Speaker A: Close. [00:03:32] Speaker B: Cool, cool, cool. So the girl said, boy has gone on holiday with his family. So she's doing her unpacking, she's renovating. [00:03:37] Speaker A: She'S decorating, she's doing. [00:03:39] Speaker B: She's doing the most. But to be fair, it's her new home, so. [00:03:43] Speaker A: Me too. [00:03:43] Speaker B: I'll be doing the most. Like, if I move somewhere, I want to make it my place. Makes sense. So he comes back from his family vacay and then he's like, we're not compatible. She says, excuse me, sir. [00:03:54] Speaker A: After three years. [00:03:56] Speaker B: Indeed, three years of being in love. In love. And he says, we're not combat all this man moves back to their home. Home place where they just moved from, while she's stuck in Texas because she's just out and moved her whole life, her savings and everything in between. [00:04:14] Speaker A: So would you guys ever move states, not city, not like from one town to the other city. In fact, I might as well say country. [00:04:28] Speaker B: That's what it sounds like. [00:04:29] Speaker A: Wasn't it from like LA to like Texas, which was. That's insane. That's. [00:04:35] Speaker B: That's insane. [00:04:38] Speaker A: For long it wasn't love, but parents on his side. No, no. [00:04:41] Speaker B: He was testing the waters because it found out they were incompatible. Don't forget that part. [00:04:47] Speaker A: And she had to move all the way from N. A so to Texas. [00:04:50] Speaker B: Because she was supportive. And nothing else is saying that men. [00:04:56] Speaker A: The song was funny, but the story. [00:05:00] Speaker B: That she was telling was just sad. [00:05:02] Speaker A: You know what I'm gonna do? I'm going to get into a relationship with a guy and I know that you know my things. I'm strong for him. And then I'll convince him to move from, like, the UK to I don't. I feel like Texas is the equivalent of, like Russia Texas. I mean, distance Wise what? Turkey distance? I don't know. I don't know, actually. No. Anyway, to move from the UK to Turkey and then I'll be like. Well, actually, things are. Yeah. [00:05:35] Speaker B: Break up with them after you opt and moved. I just. Fightful. [00:05:40] Speaker A: He doesn't have a job or anything as well. That. [00:05:44] Speaker B: That. [00:05:44] Speaker A: I think. I think I need to write it into my heart. [00:05:47] Speaker B: You're trying to hurt a man. [00:05:48] Speaker A: No, no. I think it needs to be. It needs to happen. Yeah. We need. I need to, like. I should, like, balance things out for her, shouldn't I? I should take it upon myself to balance it. I'm joking. I'm not good to do that. [00:06:01] Speaker B: This is why my friend thinks you're toxic. [00:06:05] Speaker A: I think you remember that phrase. Very, very. I was very. And that's what he said. [00:06:12] Speaker B: The words toxic. You are. [00:06:14] Speaker A: You guys are toxic. [00:06:16] Speaker B: So you are toxic. [00:06:21] Speaker A: I'm pretty sure he said the both of you. [00:06:23] Speaker B: It isn't the one. Both. [00:06:24] Speaker A: I'm pretty sure he used the both. The words. Both. [00:06:26] Speaker B: He said you are. [00:06:27] Speaker A: He didn't specify which one of the. [00:06:28] Speaker B: Two of us he was talking to, but I was thinking myself to declare it wasn't me. [00:06:34] Speaker A: I. I disagree with this. [00:06:36] Speaker B: Disagree what you want. You just said you want to ruin a whole man's life just to. [00:06:40] Speaker A: Even for the plot, I mean. I don't know what you mean. For the plot. Just for the plot. I'm not going to do this. Obviously, I'm not an. Well, that's. [00:06:49] Speaker B: I know. Are you questioning yourself? [00:06:52] Speaker A: Am I questioning that if I'm an. [00:06:54] Speaker B: Or not? [00:06:54] Speaker A: Absolutely. Anyway, what would you do in that situation, to be honest, if it was you? [00:07:06] Speaker B: Moving is difficult in general, but in my own perspective, I don't think I could move anywhere without being married on the States. That if he wants to divorce me that we'd have to go legal. We would have to both feel the pain of a separate. [00:07:20] Speaker A: But then the house that she bought would. He would also have a claim on it. [00:07:24] Speaker B: I don't think he would at that point. Depending on who was on the name and whether that was their main house and he had stayed there. So if he himself wasn't on the deed and he wasn't actually living there himself, he doesn't have legal vows to the house. It's simply her house. [00:07:38] Speaker A: That's fair. I'm actually curious. Did he live in the house or. [00:07:41] Speaker B: Did he just go and was he on a deed? [00:07:43] Speaker A: I'm very curious as to how that conversation went. Did he say, oh, I'm moving back And I want you to come with me. Or did he say I'm moving back? And then she's like, well, we're gonna go. Did she specify? I'm not sure. [00:07:58] Speaker B: I don't think she specified. What alarmed me the most is that she brained her savings to move. Yeah, I was like, I, I, I, I hear it, but I also don't hear it. [00:08:07] Speaker A: Do you know what I mean? [00:08:09] Speaker B: That's scary. [00:08:11] Speaker A: I would have done long distance. I would have said long distances. [00:08:17] Speaker B: We could Skype. [00:08:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:19] Speaker B: Like a safe shot. [00:08:20] Speaker A: And like what's the fly every now. [00:08:22] Speaker B: And then, you know, actually even to upset the romantics a bit. [00:08:25] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:26] Speaker B: Because you'd be like, I'll come pick. [00:08:27] Speaker A: You up at the airport. [00:08:28] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And then when you see him, he'll bring you flowers. It's nice. You go on a cute date. [00:08:32] Speaker A: Yeah. And he stays for the weekend and fops up and then you have your space for like until he gets to the next time. Until you go. [00:08:39] Speaker B: The best of both worlds. [00:08:40] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:08:41] Speaker B: He gets to be close to his family and you get to keep everything back. [00:08:43] Speaker A: I think like if someone's going to leave, there should be a trial period of like distance relationship before the other person decides if they're gonna like move their entire lives over. Unless you've both agreed. [00:08:54] Speaker B: I don't know, maybe a trial period. [00:08:57] Speaker A: A trial period before she did like a permanent buy in a house and all of that. Maybe Liv would like move in with his parents or something. Maybe there wasn't space. [00:09:07] Speaker B: In his parents house. Yeah, but there's some couples who do like live together with their parents. [00:09:13] Speaker A: Yeah. I'm saying maybe there wasn't space at his parents house or parent. [00:09:19] Speaker B: Maybe. [00:09:21] Speaker A: But that's wild still. [00:09:23] Speaker B: Or maybe instead of getting a house, she should have got an apartment so it's less like when she could easily get out of the contract after she pays. [00:09:32] Speaker A: Yeah, like rent. [00:09:32] Speaker B: Yeah, I agree. [00:09:34] Speaker A: I completely agree. Instead of buying a house that was such a permanent thing like decision to make. But obviously this was someone who she assumed was going to be the love of her life and they were going to get married. And I mean they've been together for three years at that point. Right. Moving on to something fluffy and something that I saw. So there's this girl who posted something and I'm going to read it exactly like because it matters. And this is from Booktok, I believe I am in there. So she says no book quote can be that relatable. Next slide. It's mentally. I was a slope. Physically I was terrified of intimacy spiritually. I didn't like men. And I've never in my entire life read anything so relatable. And we have a friend who literally embodies it very much so I just feel like, what was it she said? Like, in my head, obviously, I have this whole idea of what my life could be like, the things that I could do, exploration I could do. Have so many ideas, obviously, because I'm a booktop girly as well. So, you know, things do get quite interesting. But then at the same time, I don't even look many in the eyes. [00:10:53] Speaker B: But you don't like high context to begin with. [00:10:54] Speaker A: This is true context. I look at you though. We've had five years of practice. Don't worry, it's okay. [00:11:03] Speaker B: That is true. [00:11:09] Speaker A: So, yeah. But then at the same time, men are just a lot of work. [00:11:15] Speaker B: What, men or relationships? [00:11:17] Speaker A: Relationships. It's just a lot of work. And like, having men in my space sometimes I can find it very overwhelming. Very overwhelming. I think that's pretty much it for me in terms of like, I've got anything else. [00:11:30] Speaker B: I've got anything else. There's this lady who's telling a story of a woman who found out her boyfriend was cheating on her. So this girl was like, cool, cool, cool. You shouldn't be here. Anyway, I brought you to the uk. To the uk, to America, and you're not a legal citizen until we get married. So she was like, okay, you cheated on me. Let's return you back to your old ways. By the old ways, she means across the borders. So she said, let's go on holiday, babes. Let's buy snacks and drinks. Shut your eyes. I will drive the hallway. So off she went. She drove. Her man took a nap. By the time he woke up from his sweet nap, he was across the border. She withdrew $50. [00:12:10] Speaker A: Yeah, she withdrew some money. [00:12:11] Speaker B: She withdrew money, gave it to him and said, if you want to act this way, you might as well start from the beginning, the way I found you. So she left because she could not. She could not cross the border because once they cross the border, they're going to do passport control as they do. [00:12:25] Speaker A: It was moral of the lesson. [00:12:26] Speaker B: Don't cheat. [00:12:31] Speaker A: Moral of the lesson. What's the thing about scorned women? [00:12:38] Speaker B: I don't know. [00:12:40] Speaker A: There's a thing about scorned women. Say that something I've actually been really loving on Tik Tok lately is the hear me outs. Yeah, I saw one and they were like, say, I think, like depending on I think what side of TikTok you are. The. Hear me out. Tend to be like the guys that think. The guys. Characters, people. Anything that you kind of find attractive but aren't typically attractive. And someone put the Hunchback of Notre Dame. I forget his name. [00:13:06] Speaker B: I saw that as well. [00:13:07] Speaker A: And. [00:13:10] Speaker B: You hear it. [00:13:11] Speaker A: What do you mean? [00:13:12] Speaker B: Well, you mentioned it now, so I'm asking you the question. [00:13:15] Speaker A: I said side eye. [00:13:17] Speaker B: Okay. I just wanted to gather your thoughts. [00:13:21] Speaker A: No, that was a. That was a. That was a side eye. Huge side eye. Who else? I think I saw the. The lady. Have you seen Chicken one? [00:13:30] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:13:31] Speaker A: The girl in Chicken one was someone's. [00:13:33] Speaker B: Hear me out. Yeah. Okay. People have interesting taste, but each of their own. [00:13:43] Speaker A: That shook me to my core. How old were you when this like. And I think I saw someone who's. Hear me out. With scar. And I was like, stop it. [00:13:53] Speaker B: I saw that one too. [00:13:54] Speaker A: Everybody knows sky is chef's kiss. You know, to stop. I also saw someone put. Oh, what's that guy's name? I forget his name. I can't even think of what he's been in either. But anyway, people were putting like generic stuff. People that were like, maybe not conventionally good looking and they were there. I'm like, that's such a cop out. I need the disgustings. Yeah, I need like. [00:14:20] Speaker B: Who would you put then? [00:14:22] Speaker A: You know who I'll put. You've not. You're not there yet in one piece. But the guy, one of the guys in Don Quixote family. The baby guy. I forget his name, so. Oh, his story is so sad, but he's such a cutie. And he's like Hard boiledo. Was that he always says hard boiled. I like the way he says it in like the sub. It's just so funny. It's so good. [00:14:56] Speaker B: This one? [00:14:58] Speaker A: No, no, no, that is. That's. No, that's his brother. That's dog. His brother. [00:15:08] Speaker B: I need to see this man so I can go do in person. [00:15:10] Speaker A: So I said do. K. I'm so. This is not a bad thing. It's just so funny. [00:15:20] Speaker B: I don't want to know. Keep it to yourself. [00:15:21] Speaker A: It's just so funny. No, that was Kazon. I'm not going to put. What you done? [00:15:27] Speaker B: I typed in his name. [00:15:29] Speaker A: It's qu. [00:15:30] Speaker B: Yeah, I put it like that and then I was corrected. [00:15:33] Speaker A: Oh. [00:15:37] Speaker B: I was corrected by Google. It's not my fault you found it. [00:15:54] Speaker A: Senor Pink Missy. [00:16:04] Speaker B: That you're. Hear me out. [00:16:05] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:16:07] Speaker B: Oh, the full get up as well. [00:16:10] Speaker A: To Begin with. [00:16:11] Speaker B: You only showed me his face. [00:16:14] Speaker A: Okay. I needed to put like him when he was, like, younger, before he. His wife. The incident. And, like, you see the growth, right? And, like, all of that that he did, it's just very. [00:16:32] Speaker B: This one. [00:16:33] Speaker A: Yeah. So he went from that to the other one. So that's what he was. And then he became. [00:16:38] Speaker B: What happened in between. [00:16:41] Speaker A: Do you want to spoil it for you? [00:16:42] Speaker B: Of course I do. [00:16:43] Speaker A: Spoilers. If you haven't seen one piece. His. He, like, so when they met, she. They went on the first date. He was like. She was like. She does. She hates pirates, but obviously he's a pirate. So one day he goes off. [00:16:53] Speaker B: She. [00:16:53] Speaker A: She gets pregnant. She had a baby. Da, da, da. But he's never around. So one day the baby falls sick, I think, or something. And then the baby dies. But then obviously he's away. And then he comes back. Something happens. I forget what happens. And then she's now in, like, a vegetative state. And he does everything he can. He buys her stuff. He talks to her, everything. He takes her everywhere. She doesn't smile. She's just, like, dead. [00:17:16] Speaker B: And then he transitions. [00:17:17] Speaker A: And then he. Transition. Yeah. I think every time he shows her a picture of the baby, I think she smiles. So he's like, okay, here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna dress like their baby that they lost. And then, you know, he puts a smile on her face, and he's been doing that ever since. And that's, you know, that's cute. But he's still a pirate. He's still a bad guy. But. Yeah, but this one's not a. Hear me out. Because it's. He's gorgeous. He's absolutely gorgeous. The before picture king. But that's a beautiful. That is a piece. I don't know why not. I don't know why people aren't, like, not simping, but, like. I don't know why he's not, like, out there. He's so pretty. From the one hour arc. [00:18:06] Speaker B: Okay. [00:18:07] Speaker A: Throw it back to you. What. What else? What else you say? Actually, trauma salad. Did you see those? [00:18:14] Speaker B: I haven't seen that one. [00:18:15] Speaker A: Okay, so someone would be like, hi, my name is so. And so I brought the bowl and my dad just say something wild, something so horrible that you're just like. And then the next person will come, oh, hi, my name is so. And so. I brought the sweets poorly in the bowl. And then they'll be like, oh, yeah, my mom. So and so and so. R word. B word. Everything. Everything. And then there's one. I'm. I'm from a literature family and my mom, my. One of my parents used to R words hard R N word me. There was one who. There was like in like a truck. That was the first one I saw. It was like a church one. And they were all part of like some court, of course. And like it was wild the things that they were saying. I think one of them was like his parents. Like their parents used to lock them in the basement. [00:19:05] Speaker B: Why? [00:19:06] Speaker A: But. And they used to tell them that like they shouldn't go out because like they would. Like they would be. It was just like the weirdest thing. And then at the end. And also we're all part of the court. And it was just like, what's the way they say it? They say it in such a like nonchalant way. Fun way. Because. [00:19:29] Speaker B: But that's like when I tell you a story and you're like, why are you not upset? Why you not angry? Like why you're not showing. Because I've just lived it. Like I've been through the motions. It's just now. It's now just an anecdote to me. [00:19:40] Speaker A: Yeah, no, no, I hear you. I hear you. But it's just. It's still wild and shit like that. You can't normalize. [00:19:46] Speaker B: No, you can't normalize. But I think it's just the way we process things. [00:19:48] Speaker A: Yeah. Because obviously like to you it was the norm and hopefully you've kind of healed from. From it. But God damn, people have been through trauma. [00:19:58] Speaker B: Indeed we have. [00:20:00] Speaker A: We. When do we start taking breaks? [00:20:05] Speaker B: We indeed. [00:20:07] Speaker A: What do you mean that we? I don't know this language you speak of. Also I found out recently that Cartoon Network closed. [00:20:16] Speaker B: Yeah. Yes, they did. Recently. [00:20:19] Speaker A: Yeah, I found out like two weeks ago. Three weeks ago. [00:20:22] Speaker B: Did I not tell you about it? We had a conversation about it at work. [00:20:27] Speaker A: Really? [00:20:27] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:20:28] Speaker A: The new work or the old one? [00:20:30] Speaker B: What? My new one. [00:20:32] Speaker A: Really? [00:20:32] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:20:33] Speaker A: How long ago? [00:20:34] Speaker B: Last month. [00:20:35] Speaker A: But then that was when I brought it up. [00:20:37] Speaker B: Is it? [00:20:38] Speaker A: Yeah. Cuz I was the one who brought. [00:20:39] Speaker B: It up to you, so I didn't tell you. Then we had a conversation together. Yeah, we had a conversation separate to you. [00:20:45] Speaker A: Oh my God. Another thing. Sakura's design. Oh my. Did you. [00:20:49] Speaker B: I'm not watching you. [00:20:52] Speaker A: Sakura's initial design. She was meant to be carrying like a hammer. Don't you think that makes a lot more sense than whatever it is that they decided to do with her? She had so much aggression. She needed A weapon. She needed something. She needed something big and it was a hammer or a ax or whatever it was. They should have stuck with that. And then what? What do you mean and then what? And then she wouldn't have been as. [00:21:19] Speaker B: She would have been exactly the same just with a hammer. [00:21:21] Speaker A: No, she wouldn't. She would have actually been strong. She would have been like 10:10. Because she would have had a weapon. Maybe not like 10:10, because 10:10 is like, you know there. She would have been like, you know. [00:21:34] Speaker B: You know what I mean? [00:21:35] Speaker A: If she had a weapon and didn't just used to do this in her head. If she actually sworn the damn axe and hit somebody. You know what I mean? That would have been nice. That would have been great to see. And then she would have got the whole Tsunade thing after. She would have even been cooler. [00:21:51] Speaker B: That's not it. [00:21:52] Speaker A: No, I mean she would have been cooler than she is. [00:21:54] Speaker B: Okay, I felt it judge you for that sentence. I was like, no, she could not be better. Sanade. Like not as cool as Sanadi. Like the way Sanadi carries herself. No one could compare. [00:22:04] Speaker A: I mean, no one can compare Princess Sanade. Let's put some respect on her name. Princess Hawkeye Gate Tsunade. [00:22:12] Speaker B: She carried herself so well. [00:22:17] Speaker A: For her character. Yes. For a woman in that world. I, I, Yeah, not, not the gambling. Not the gambling and not the love life, but the love life. I hear it. [00:22:33] Speaker B: It's a sad love life. [00:22:35] Speaker A: You what? [00:22:36] Speaker B: I think it was a sad look. [00:22:37] Speaker A: Like, you know what? I've actually realized that all the whose love story in in Naruto don't care about Boruto doesn't exist. In Naruto was actually a good one. [00:22:50] Speaker B: A good love story. [00:22:51] Speaker A: Because Asuma and that Lady Asma's dead love story. The Kushina and Minato dead. [00:23:04] Speaker B: But they love each other. [00:23:06] Speaker A: Yes, dead still. [00:23:07] Speaker B: But what are you constituting as a good love story then why are they. [00:23:11] Speaker A: Dead at the end? [00:23:11] Speaker B: No, I'm asking you what are you constituting as a good love story? If it's just the fact that they die, then that's not okay. That's tragic. [00:23:18] Speaker A: Why does a love story have to end in tragedy? [00:23:20] Speaker B: Okay, then what you're saying is what love story is not tragic then? [00:23:22] Speaker A: Okay? Yes, because of course it is. I'm not saying that. Good. Okay, let me reframe and say. Why does every love story in Naruto have to be shit and end in tragedy? Oh, not. Maybe not every moth that I can think of right now. Minato And Kushina. They died at the end. Thank you very much. Sorry. [00:23:43] Speaker B: I'm gonna know my eyes flicking. [00:23:46] Speaker A: Who else? Asuma and his girl. Asuma's dead now. He's got a kid living with no dad. Tragic. Who else has a love story? Dan and Tsunade. Dan's dead. Who else had a love story? [00:24:03] Speaker B: Did Kakashi have a love story? [00:24:05] Speaker A: No, he was just a little close up. Who else had a love story? [00:24:15] Speaker B: Jiraiya was one sided. [00:24:17] Speaker A: Still tried it. Because technically Tsunade did love him. And then guess what? He did. [00:24:25] Speaker B: You're still on many more women's apparently. [00:24:27] Speaker A: Yeah. Like why what happened? I mean why so sad? Why so serious? I'm literally googling happy love stories. Love story Relationships. Romantic. Romantic relationships in Naruto. I'm not talking about the ones that came after. They don't count. Okay, so let's see. What does this say? Tsunade and Dan. He dead. Yahiko and Conan both dead. Now that actually pissed me off. When he. When Yakiko died. And then when she died. Her death was just so senseless. That was so sad. So sad. No, but when he. I shed a tear. I shed tears when she died. Tears. I was pulling my eyes out when she died. I would tell you that for free. That was so. That was gut wrenching. Sasuke's parents. [00:25:41] Speaker B: They were assassinated though. [00:25:42] Speaker A: Still did. Still tragic. They were killed by their own son. [00:25:46] Speaker B: He had no option. [00:25:53] Speaker A: Tridging somebody. I'm like those aren't the people I'm talking about. Oh right, yeah. Asuma Kurenai. That's her name. Karenai. Sakura and Sasuke. That was Sakura and Sasuke. That was the worst thing that they could have ever done. No, no, no. Seriously. [00:26:09] Speaker B: The ones give Sasuke a happy ending. [00:26:12] Speaker A: No she don't. Not that she doesn't deserve happy ending, but she should have been with somebody else. [00:26:15] Speaker B: Who? [00:26:17] Speaker A: Sai or Rock Lee? Because we all know that 1010 and Ninja were meant to be together. And also I'm still upset that Ninja's dead. Till today. Till today. They could have killed Mighty God. [00:26:29] Speaker B: Don't care. [00:26:30] Speaker A: He could have done. Yeah. [00:26:31] Speaker B: I said what I said. [00:26:32] Speaker A: What I said if they wanted us to have some information or la de da said that somebody major dies, kid. He'll guide off. In fact, you know what? Kakashi can go. [00:26:41] Speaker B: Absolutely not. [00:26:43] Speaker A: I said what I said. That would have had more of an emotional impact. Especially if Obito was holding me at the end. Like ah. That would have been great. Why Neji? Why Neji? [00:26:52] Speaker B: Well, you want Tenten and Neji were. [00:26:54] Speaker A: Meant to be together forever and ever and ever. Why Neji? Why did he have to die? Were you going to say something? [00:27:01] Speaker B: I can't handle you saying the Kashi must die. [00:27:03] Speaker A: No, I didn't say Kakashi must die. I said if they were going to kill someone off, that would leave like as much of an emotional impact on Naruto and everybody. Literally every. Every single person. Kakashi couldn't go. He was a Kage. [00:27:21] Speaker B: Yeah, but I really liked him. [00:27:22] Speaker A: I. I love Kakashi. Love Kakashi. But kill him off should have killed him off. I'm not a writer, obviously. So you know. Well, I am an aspiring writer. [00:27:38] Speaker B: Of course. Of course. [00:27:39] Speaker A: Obviously. Kushina and I always forget his name. Minato. Who else? Oh, that's it. Were they just giving me the top 10 or something? Wow. You know what? Relationship. I actually rate the Alaric brother. What's his name? Not Alphonse, the other one. [00:28:07] Speaker B: He's the main one from Fullness Alchemist. [00:28:10] Speaker A: Yeah, I was gonna say the blonde brother, but they're both blonde. The older brother, what's his name? And why do I remember Alphonse and I don't remember his. Oh, damn it. [00:28:26] Speaker B: Full Metal Alchemist. [00:28:28] Speaker A: Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood. [00:28:32] Speaker B: I still haven't watched. I said original. I haven't watched the one before the manga finished. [00:28:40] Speaker A: Edward. I bet you someone's shouting on the other side like, Edward. Edward. Edward. I'm sorry, Edwards. [00:28:48] Speaker B: What about his story? [00:28:49] Speaker A: Him and Lucy. Lucy. [00:28:51] Speaker B: He has Lucy to go. [00:28:52] Speaker A: They make sense. They do. [00:28:54] Speaker B: They spend so much time together. Actual relationship. [00:28:56] Speaker A: Exactly. They make sense. Not Sasuke and Sakura. And that is a hill I am willing to die on. [00:29:05] Speaker B: I don't know why. [00:29:07] Speaker A: Like, why does he have to procreate anyway? He could have just died being the only. Like that was his thing. Anyway. [00:29:15] Speaker B: The last of you. [00:29:16] Speaker A: Yeah, the last Uchiha. It could have just been the last Uchiya. Like the Last Samurai. The last Uchiha. And just done so I said like also ask me why. I just realized the other day as well, this also on TikTok. I realized because someone mentioned it, that Tom Cruise was not the last samurai in the Last Samurai. But his photo was the one that was on the thing. So I always assumed that he was the Last Samurai. But he wasn't. The Last Samurai was already dead and his wife was the one that gave his armor away to his. The guys. To Tom Chris's character. [00:29:54] Speaker B: Oh. [00:29:59] Speaker A: Yeah. That just changes everything, you know, I mean, I guess. And like if the guy is like morals and like his whatever, whatever, that kind of pushes the whatever. But maybe I need to watch the Last Samurai again because I watched it when I was like I didn't even think I was a teenager yet. Yeah, I think that's pretty much it. Wow, that excitement. [00:30:26] Speaker B: Reddit. [00:30:27] Speaker A: Reddit, you want to go first? [00:30:29] Speaker B: Sure. Amanda Arsenal were given the ring backed after my fiance made a comment to to his guy friends regarding why we haven't gotten married. My fiance and I, both 30, have been together for eight years or eight years and engaged for four years. We got engaged right before COVID really hit and obviously that put a huge halt on this any sort of planet. And then what's up? [00:30:54] Speaker A: No, carry on. [00:30:54] Speaker B: Okay. And then from there forward life events halted it more, became homeless, ended up pregnant and having our child. Now we are back on our feet and not financial but not financially where we could be yet. Back roughly five back roughly five months ago. Ish. I rose up marriage and basically approached the idea of having a backyard wedding and I thought look, basically going cheap because I didn't realize I don't really care so much about the wedding or the price or whatever. I just want to wear a pretty dress and have all eyes on me and get married to the love of my life. [00:31:26] Speaker A: Cute. [00:31:26] Speaker B: Very cute, right? I don't care about the expensive bells and whistles. When I brought it up, he told me that that wouldn't be a bad idea and that we couldn't. We could probably try planning it for July 2025. Okay. But we haven't really talked about it since that point as other shit came up. Here's the issue though. Back about five months ago we were down to our neighbour's home. People who have grown to be really good friends since we have moved here. One and a half years ago I was hanging out with the neighbour's wife and her best friend. My fiance was hanging out with a group of three to four guys having beers and working on a vehicle. Well, one of the guys there was talking about his wife and said once you get married everything fucking stops. I overheard in the middle of the conversation. I overheard in the middle of the conversation. So I have no idea what stops during marriage and what it was a negative comment in regards. But anyways, my fiance then starts laughing and goes that's why I have been dragging my feet on marriage and that. And the guys just laughed and said don't do it man, it's a trap. Etc. Etc. It really hurt me but I figured it was just lock of room talk and try my best to move on, but like I couldn't let it go. I sat on the back. Sat in the back of my. Sat in the back of my head. So a couple of weeks ago I brought up getting married again and just read some ideas by him on simple things like what he saw our wedding clothes being and he shut down. He shut down a bit and said something to the effect of I think we need to weigh the pros and cons of being married first and shut down the conversation. Instant plunge to my gut, honestly. So I walk outside to calm myself down, but I just couldn't shake it honestly. So I went back inside and calmly handed him my ring back and asked him what he wanted for dinner. I didn't want to make a big deal, so there's no yelling, no crying, nothing. I was calm and moved on, but he instantly asked me what I was doing and why I gave the ring back. So I mentioned his comments to his buddies about dragging his feet and now his comments about how his now and now. His comments about needing to wait and weigh the pros and cons before going through with anything. Told him I don't want to wait, nor do I want to get my face up for marriage that he's clearly changed his mind mind about. So I would rather he. Rather he has a ring back and goes into this without the sound of wedding bells in my head. Let's just move on. Basically we can still be together and. But I don't want my face up. Well, he got extremely defensive, started saying, I'm not saying it's not going to happen or you're being extremely. You're being extreme for no reason. Am I the asshole? [00:34:08] Speaker A: No, he is he. [00:34:11] Speaker B: Yeah. There was no need for him to yell like you reflected upon it and you just gave a ring back. You're like, I'm done. [00:34:19] Speaker A: The first comment copy paste of my fault baby, 4 years. Pros and cons. Yeah. Yeah. They live together. No. [00:34:29] Speaker B: They live together. Yes. They live together for eight years. I just add engage before she does state that in the first line. [00:34:39] Speaker A: That is her entire 20s, quite literally. What a nightmare. A child. [00:34:52] Speaker B: So she's even saying like, okay, we've just had a baby and no, we can't do a big wedding. I just want something small and intimate. We can even have it at home. [00:34:59] Speaker A: You know, he's sponsored finesse. [00:35:02] Speaker B: Explain. [00:35:03] Speaker A: How are you going to let another man whisper all these stupid things in your ear? Some random man who's your neighbor, not your dad, not your. Not Someone you like, you know, trust, say, stupid locker room. And then you're going to use that to manipulate your, your girlfriend, your fiance, into doing something that you've decided you don't want to do just because what. Probably sex or like the spicy stuff, stuff that comes with, you know, the excitement of not married. Like, that's. That, that's got to be it. [00:35:29] Speaker B: But that just comes down to the couples. [00:35:31] Speaker A: Or like, sometimes like, oh, the fun stops as well. [00:35:33] Speaker B: The fun. [00:35:35] Speaker A: What fun are they having? They've just got. They have a baby. [00:35:39] Speaker B: Whether they got married or not and had a baby, things would have to slow down eventually. [00:35:43] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:35:44] Speaker B: Like. [00:35:45] Speaker A: But I do think that getting married does changes. It does change things quite a bit. I don't know what about getting married. I've seen it quite a few times where, you know, in a, in relationship normally, but then you get married, this. I don't know what changes or something changes. I think maybe there's more of a. There's more pressure maybe for it to work because now it's official, it's legal, you know, you like, yes, we're going to be together for the rest of our lives, but instead of you to be like, okay, yes, we're going to be together for the rest of our life, we need to work on it. We need to do this, we need to do that. Some people are shut down and then like, they get this dread and then obviously it eats them up inside and it just builds up and builds up and builds up. Yeah. [00:36:25] Speaker B: I think it might also be like the culture of trying to show that the perfect marriage, like when you're not married, you can go to your friend's event and you can. He will also go to his friend's event. And then afterwards you'll be like, ah, I was upset. You know, I'm fine, I've had my release. But sometimes because you're like, I want people to see my marriage in a certain light, they will always have that release. Like, you don't have the outlet to event because you're so worried about the section of other people around you. [00:36:54] Speaker A: But I reckon if this is like, to your, you know, to your close friends, I think a lot of women feel very comfortable not complaining, but confiding in their friends about the problems that they're having in a relationship. You can't. I would hope that people aren't doing that. I would hope very much that people aren't doing that. That's maybe so. [00:37:12] Speaker B: But it's just like the concept that they just don't want to see them, see the apartment. And that's it. Why? Because they're going through it. And then if someone else is telling you, like, oh, he shouldn't be doing that. Like, if you yourself are saying these bad things or not bad things, but negative things given the context of the situation, and then your friends are also corresponding and saying, like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's double negatives. Like, all my friends, like, sometimes they'll be like, I said this, and my friends have confirmed it. This must be it. And that's coming from both sides. Like, regardless, both men and women. Like, he'll go to his guy friends and be like, this is what's happening. His guys will be like, yeah, we agree. She goes to her field and like, this is what's happened. Like, yeah, we agree. So, like, there were negatives. [00:37:47] Speaker A: Yeah, but isn't this where, like, discernment kind of comes in and your own feelings and your own thoughts and processes comes in and you're like, you regard. Like, you have to make a decision. [00:37:55] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:37:56] Speaker A: You can't be. You can't be doing up. I don't want my friends to think that my relationship is bad when your relationship is actually bad. [00:38:02] Speaker B: That's true. [00:38:04] Speaker A: Like, the consequence. If your relationship is bad, fix it. If you can't fix it, leave it. [00:38:10] Speaker B: So in this context, with this guy, what do you think he should have done? [00:38:12] Speaker A: In this context, she's not the asshole. She needs to sit him down and speak to him and tell him he needs to go see somebody that he trusts. He needs to go to a therapist. So back to what you were saying. Was. I want to say something. What was I saying? [00:38:26] Speaker B: He should sit down, son. He dressed. [00:38:27] Speaker A: He needs to see someone he trusts. He needs to go for counseling. [00:38:31] Speaker B: I would go in the route of what the comment says. Like, he should have thought about this before prison. Like, whatever doubts he had, he should have addressed them with her. [00:38:39] Speaker A: But to be fair, sometimes you don't know what a problem. You don't know what problems could happen until someone says it and you're. But to be honest. And then you start ruminating. [00:38:49] Speaker B: Okay, but then, still with that, he should have gone to his partner. [00:38:52] Speaker A: Yes, I agree. [00:38:54] Speaker B: This is how I'm feeling. Let's work it out. [00:38:56] Speaker A: Yeah, he shouldn't. What he shouldn't have done is taken it, made a stupid decision without speaking to your partner, who you would be married to, and then being like, oh, try to manipulate it and be like, oh, we need to weigh the pros and cons. What fucking pros? And cons. Max, you're gonna spend $500 on this, probably less. And for someone who you're going to spend the rest of your life with, with someone who is the mother of your child. Like, I think sometimes in relationships or when you're ruminating and you're just, you know, you're really, you're in your field and you're in your thoughts and you're, you're in your own head sometimes you isolate yourself and you're just thinking about you, you, you, you, you. Now how's this going to affect you, you, you, you, you. But it's not just you in this. [00:39:40] Speaker B: But you after that, after eight years, he'd know. Like, it's not just a me saying, it's a nurse thing. [00:39:44] Speaker A: You'd be surprised by how many people are in relationships, but the relationship has run its course really. Or like they're in relationships where they really donated themselves. Like remember during lockdown a lot of people started breaking up together because they didn't recognize who their partner was. They're like, oh, they can't do this. [00:40:01] Speaker B: But obviously to many factors, not just, not like, I think lockdown was an isolated thing. [00:40:06] Speaker A: No, lockdown was because they forced people to live together. It forced people to make certain decisions that they never would have, that they never had to make before. And so they need to, they needed to communicate and they weren't staying eye to eye. So relationships broke up. [00:40:21] Speaker B: Things they wouldn't have to deal with normally. Like in a day to day. [00:40:26] Speaker A: I don't think it's isolated. The reason, well, from what I saw was that the men weren't really doing what they should be. Like, they weren't doing their part at home because everybody was at home. So from what I heard or from the sides that I saw was mainly the men just doing their own thing because they had to, they had to be the ones to teach the kids. And the guys weren't really doing that. And so I fell in the mum, but the mum still had work to do. So what now? And you know, also let's, let's, let's, let's be honest. So people were made redundant. Nobody had money. And fair enough, maybe they would have had money and they wouldn't have had that conversation. But what would have. It could have been a thing where he could have lost his job at any point in time. I wouldn't necessarily say that it's an isolated incident because like in, I'd say in, I don't know the statistics, to be honest, of like 5 out of 10, people lose their jobs, like, within their lifetimes or whatever. So I don't want to say whatever, but I feel like losing one partner, losing their job is not such a nuanced thing. But I do understand that obviously Covid was a very unique situation. And obviously they got engaged before COVID and so I guess they lived together for a long time. I mean, Covid was 20. 20. 2020. So they've been together. They've lived together for four years, bro. [00:41:50] Speaker B: No, we don't know if they've lived together for four years. [00:41:52] Speaker A: We just know they've been engaged for four years. All right. And everything halted. [00:41:57] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:41:57] Speaker A: And they're just getting up financially. Yeah, it's tough. I don't say. I wouldn't say leave, but I'd say speak to him. He can't be in his own head too much. He needs to ask himself why he's getting married in the first place as well. Like, if it's just for the. For the things that he's not going to get anymore. That's just silly. I mean, I know it's important, but that's silly when you could literally just be like, babe, babe, I beg you. Yeah, I know we're getting married, but like, oh, my God, I hate this word. I was just about to use it. Sloppy topping. [00:42:35] Speaker B: You're disgusting. [00:42:36] Speaker A: I'm not disgusting. I think it's disgusting. I hate it so much it disgusts me. But that was going for a shock factor. Just be like, oh, babe, you know, Like, I know, like, things are going to get quite intense with the marriage or whatever, but I beg you, I still need them weekly. You know, those little spontaneous no panties, Friday, I beg you. I need that. Like, there are ways to have these type of communication, like, talks with your partner, not make it weird. Or, like, if you do find out that, like, this is struggling, you got to talk to your babe. What's wrong with you? They've been together for eight years. You think? Well, I don't know. People are different, I guess. And the communication doesn't come easy. It doesn't come easy to me. That's for sure. I hold a grudge for five years before I talk about it. [00:43:27] Speaker B: You said trauma. [00:43:28] Speaker A: What trauma? What? I don't deal with it. I don't know her. And we cover it up with alcohol and a tele biscuit and Nutella biscuits. [00:43:46] Speaker B: You're funny. Okay, your deals. Oh. [00:43:51] Speaker A: Ooh la la. Yes. Okay, so this is from. Am I overreacting? Right. So am I overreacting for kicking My boyfriend out today. I came home to my 20, so she's 28 female. Boyfriend is 25 male. Oh, am I the asshole? No, no. Not am I the asshole? Am I? Today I came home from my boyfriend to my boyfriend playing video games. I came over to say hello to him and noticed he was in the middle of an intense part of the game. I stayed quiet and when it ended, I asked if I could have some chips that were next to him. He obliged. I ate some and then put them back. I went to grab the packet again and he died in the video game in the process. [00:44:37] Speaker B: That's unfortunate time. [00:44:39] Speaker A: He then turned to me and screamed in my face. I can't remember the words because I was so shocked. He never yelled. We never yell, argue. We both have a fear of confrontation and don't really raise our voices. I immediately shot down. I immediately shut down. After a back and forth conversation, I told him we, in parenthesis, we live together. I told him if we could please wait, if he could please leave. I needed space. I'm not sure if it's just for tonight or how long, but I've never experienced that much anger from him, especially for a fucking video game. So am I overreacting? Absolutely not. I don't think so. [00:45:22] Speaker B: He has it within him. He does. [00:45:25] Speaker A: He got the dog in him. I'm joking. I don't mean that he got my dog. [00:45:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:45:33] Speaker A: When? The first week. [00:45:34] Speaker B: She was joking and it got on her nerves. [00:45:38] Speaker A: I'm gonna use that. I'm a dog. [00:45:46] Speaker B: But no, you're not reacting like there's no need for like unfortunate timing that you went to grab the snacks whilst he was still. As he was about to die. [00:45:55] Speaker A: As I was about to die. It wasn't a fault, to be honest. It could have not been a fault. We don't know. Yeah, but he died regardless. [00:46:02] Speaker B: Yeah, he died. And it's not your fault. You just want to smack, that's fine. [00:46:05] Speaker A: But you know, the, the I hear the like the feeling of like you're playing a game and then someone comes and then, oops, you're dead. And it's like. But emotional control, Emotional control. [00:46:19] Speaker B: We've had it. Sometimes when I come back and you're playing a game and I come in the living room and you just happen to die in that second. I opened the door, I said, the lights affected your eyes. And then we're in silence for a quick three minutes before I'm even allowed to sit down. [00:46:32] Speaker A: I gotta get myself together. [00:46:36] Speaker B: As of no, I've listened at the Door until she exhales. That's what I know is I can enter. [00:46:44] Speaker A: No, like, I mean, it happens, but you can't. [00:46:46] Speaker B: Why. [00:46:46] Speaker A: Why would you be shouting? Yeah, like, how old is the guy? 25. [00:46:50] Speaker B: 25. [00:46:53] Speaker A: And then they say, oh, that's young men too. That's young men. There you go. They don't know how to control their emotions. What. [00:47:00] Speaker B: What do you think any other men would add of any other age? [00:47:02] Speaker A: I actually expect that from a 24. From a 25 year old. He's the thing. He's just developing. [00:47:07] Speaker B: You expect that? [00:47:08] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:47:12] Speaker B: Agenda. Take it back. [00:47:15] Speaker A: No, dad, I'm joking. I'm joking. No, I was gonna say it's her fault for days of a 25 year old, but it's not. Obviously. He just doesn't know how to control his emotions yet. But if you're gonna continue, I'll say definitely be careful. I don't know if it's gotten to anger management because you said he's never done this before, so maybe something else happened. Yeah, speak to him. I know you guys are, you know, he's left. That's actually something. Maybe you shouldn't have done that. I don't know. Where would he have gone? I hope maybe his parents are close by. Hopefully at least he didn't throw out all his clothes and be like, I leave the house right now. Which. Good. We know some people who. That's their go to, so that's good. But she actually maintained her emotions quite well, I'd say. But obviously she said she shut down, which. Which is unfortunate, isn't it? [00:48:07] Speaker B: Well, she did say she's had a fear of, like, confrontation, so it makes sense why she shut down. [00:48:11] Speaker A: Yeah. It's so sad. Like, how would you react if something, like, if someone yelled at me, I would. I don't want to say what I'd do, what I think I'd do. I'd probably do the same thing. I'll shut down and I'll be like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll let that shit simmer. Yeah, I would let it simmer. And then one day I'll do it intentionally. I've sat there. I'll be the best girlfriend. You're about to win. Oh, you're about to win Call of Duty. You're about to be the mvp. I'll just. [00:48:47] Speaker B: Oops. [00:48:49] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:48:50] Speaker B: What? I mean, start y'all ETO off, or. [00:48:53] Speaker A: You'Re about to win that tournament on FIFA or whatever. You're about to qualify Mortal Kombat. You're about to win Street Fighter. Same thing. [00:49:06] Speaker B: You. [00:49:06] Speaker A: Maybe you're following the story arc and it's that. It's that one that you've been trying for so long to beat, and you just. You haven't been able to get it, and you're just about to get it. I'll just switch it off and I walk out of the room. Now come chase me. Come and chase. Come on. Come and chase me. Yeah. You shouted at me. I'm joking. I wouldn't do this. I'll probably just shut down and be like, we shall see. It's okay. But there's no relationship anymore. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, cool, cool, cool. [00:49:47] Speaker B: This game. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:49:48] Speaker A: Done. [00:49:49] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:49:49] Speaker A: I. I'll get water while you're shouting at me. [00:49:53] Speaker B: I'll go get my water. Just slowly and I'll see. Why don't you stop me shouting before I. Now you stop. Thank you. And we move on. [00:50:01] Speaker A: Yeah, Move on. Yeah, yeah. I'm packing my stuff. I'm moving out. Relationship done. Relationship done. Because it's not the standard. We don't. We don't do. We don't do that over here. We don't do that over here. We use our inside voices. [00:50:17] Speaker B: I don't think we've ever shouted before. [00:50:19] Speaker A: I mean, we're loud, but that's just like children. But we shouted at each other. [00:50:22] Speaker B: No, I don't think we have a. [00:50:23] Speaker A: No, not even. [00:50:24] Speaker B: We have a disagreement. [00:50:25] Speaker A: Hey, where's wood? Let me caress that wood. Yeah, but no, we haven't. [00:50:31] Speaker B: I think wise. [00:50:32] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:50:33] Speaker B: We're very passive in our anger. [00:50:36] Speaker A: This is true. [00:50:37] Speaker B: That's why we don't shout. [00:50:38] Speaker A: We're very, very, very, very passive people. Yes. So fucking passive. Bruh. Hi. I don't know. [00:50:49] Speaker B: Someone petty is like, instead of texting each other, we're writing to the notes, please, I clean the kitchen. Don't touch anything. Or I've made dinner to clean up. [00:51:06] Speaker A: Or you've made dinner. Look at the state of the kitchen. Clean it, please, please. Smiley face on the note, too. And a wink. You're gonna put the wink. You're gonna be passive with the aggressive. [00:51:24] Speaker B: That is how we are doing things in this household. It works well because even when we apologize to each other after this class of aggressiveness, it's also done in note information. And then the other person has to reply in note formation as well. And. And then once the both meals are connected, we know we're cool. [00:51:39] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:51:39] Speaker B: Yes. Yes. [00:51:40] Speaker A: Literally the next day, like, it's fine. There's something about seeing that note. And preferably with a gift as well. Ah, yes. Yes. A gift has to accompany said apology. Or, like, in the past, we haven't. Yes. Timbits specifically. [00:51:55] Speaker B: Yes. Because we don't know is a bit much. But Timbits say, I'm ready to be. To commence friendship again. [00:52:01] Speaker A: Yes. Here's a shearing platter. And then we pick one, one by one, as the day goes by. [00:52:06] Speaker B: And when a box is empty, we're like, okay. Okay. Done pushing this over. [00:52:13] Speaker A: That's legit. I don't know if that's a good thing or not. [00:52:17] Speaker B: I think we have the conflict very well. [00:52:19] Speaker A: It's like, okay, now I'm done. Like, simmering, you know? [00:52:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:52:23] Speaker A: So here's a story for me being an asshole for the past few days. [00:52:26] Speaker B: That's what I'm saying. Like, because we're so passive, we never, like, not. We're never mean to each other. [00:52:32] Speaker A: No, no, no, no, no. Because, like, I think I'll just. I'll just sit in, like, the rage. Or, like, not the rage, but the. [00:52:38] Speaker B: Anger in the feelings. Yeah. And because we, like, we take time to reflect. After we're reflecting, we're just like, okay, you did your thing, I did my thing. Let's move on. [00:52:46] Speaker A: And the thing is, we always make sure we both do our thing as well. Like, in fact, if I do my thing, I'm literally waiting for her to do her thing, and then I'm like, yeah, yeah. What? Even now? Cool. But the thing is, there's a lot. I feel like we've never crossed the line. [00:52:57] Speaker B: I don't think we've. [00:52:58] Speaker A: No. Don't ever cross the line. No. But we've never crossed the line. [00:53:06] Speaker B: Circle it back. [00:53:07] Speaker A: Circling it back to these ones. [00:53:10] Speaker B: These ones. I don't think the basis of communication. [00:53:14] Speaker A: Matches, because she said they're both passive, so maybe he. Rich. [00:53:18] Speaker B: Well, no, no, no. I said we're passive. We didn't say he. Which she. [00:53:21] Speaker A: No, she said they both don't like confrontation. [00:53:23] Speaker B: Okay. [00:53:23] Speaker A: So maybe he reached the limit or something might have happened. I'll definitely say definitely talk to him. Him leaving the house. I don't know. Because obviously you were very scared, and it's likely that you were scared for your safety because this is a side of him that, like, you said, you've never seen before. So I. I'll speak to him for sure. And if you feel like it's something that you can't get over, then it is what it is. But if you can get. You can get over it. If he's. It's a one time thing. Maybe then maybe that doesn't sound like it make made any sense. So let me rephrase. If you feel like he's justified with the way he felt in that time, then sure, you can let it slide. But I'll definitely say you should caution yourself. Yeah, you should, you should tread lightly going forward. Not like he should be walking on eggshells, but he's got to sort out his emotions, especially if you can't manage it. Yeah. So definitely talk to him about how he needs to manage his emotions a lot, a lot better. No smashing things. Like what is he a child? I mean 25. No, but sometimes, you know, like gamers, they smash like their controls, their keyboard or like the, you know, little computer thing. Yeah. On to the next one. [00:54:54] Speaker B: I, 30, male, I'm going through a divorce and I have met an amazing girl, 29, female. But I have some doubts. Are my feelings genuine? So I have been separated from my ex for five months and we have proceeded with a divorce. It was nine years of emotional abuse and I picked up some bad habits. For example, tiptoeing around my words, negative expectations, etc. In the meantime, I had been going out on dates with girls for the past three months and none of them piqued my interest. There's nothing wrong with these girls, but none of them really connected with me until I met this one girl. She made me feel secure and she meets all my emotional needs and other needs too. But I occasionally go through times of the day where I feel uneasy. It's not so much a negative feeling, but my therapist says it's just my heart being careful. After nine years of hurt, I'm going a million miles per hour with this girl. We've been moving at a very quick pace for months, which I'm really enjoying. But I don't know if this uneasiness is just because I'm not used to being with a girl who actually respects me or my feelings for all. This girl are genuine. Yeah. After nine years of an emotionally abusive relationship, my heart is reacting weirdly to someone who actually respects me. I think that if he's going through divorce proceedings and fair enough, they've been separated for separated for nearly half a year now. So if you feel ready to date, you feel ready to date. But as your therapist says, it might be like your feelings are your feelings, but it could also be the fact that it is a new relationship and the dynamics are different. So you don't know how to react yet or your body is still catching or your body's still catching up with the things. Like things are changed. This girl actually likes me and she treats me nicely. Well, not nicely, just treats you with respect, as you said. So. And that's unfamiliar. It's unfamiliar. So you. You getting back to the familial or the normality of just being in a healthy relationship, which is, as you said, you weren't in an abusive relationship and you've learned these negative habits. So you're probably just still coming out of those negative habits and learning new healthy habits to override those previous habits you had. [00:57:07] Speaker A: But it's a genuine fear to have, though. Not fear, but it's a genuine concern to have. [00:57:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:57:15] Speaker A: I'm not worried, but I'm. Because everything. How long have they been together? Three months. Three months? [00:57:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:57:22] Speaker A: It's very new. They're basically in the honeymoon stage. [00:57:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:57:26] Speaker A: So maybe he's waiting for the thing to drop. What's the thing? The belt? Yeah, whatever. That one. The one where, like, shit happens and he's like, ah, right. I thought so all along. [00:57:37] Speaker B: That may never come, though. Yeah. [00:57:38] Speaker A: But I think he's waiting for it. I feel like maybe he's bracing himself for the. [00:57:43] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. In the minds of his therapist. Like, he's still. Wait. He's still unlearning those things or he's still getting used to this unfamiliar territory. [00:57:51] Speaker A: I'm very surprised what would happen if they do get into an argument and how he's going to behave, because so far everything's been great and he's loving it. I'm loving it, Loving it, loving it. I'm loving it. Like that. [00:58:02] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:58:05] Speaker A: So. Yeah, I don't think I have anything to say. It's a waiting game. [00:58:10] Speaker B: What do you mean, waiting game? Waiting game to see how the relationship. [00:58:12] Speaker A: Progresses and how he is in the relationship. Well, unless he wants to break up with her because he's feeling uneasy. [00:58:20] Speaker B: That's his feelings. [00:58:21] Speaker A: It is his feelings, but. And he. Right. He wants us to help him to find the root of this uneasiness that he's feeling. [00:58:30] Speaker B: Oh. Just to confirm whether it is uneasiness or he's just getting used to being in a healthy relationship. This is a genuine release, like a genuine thing for him. [00:58:38] Speaker A: Yeah. I think he's got to let go. I think the uneasiness is him waiting for the foot to drop, for the other foot to drop. That's it. And so I think he just needs to take it as the day comes, day by Day. And if she gives and if everything's good, they're communicating well. There are no obvious signs or whatever of, like, abuse. And like he said, she respects him, she's listening to him. There's no toxicness. It's all good, then. Carry on. Keep calm and carry on. When that was a thing, oh, my God. Me and Chelsea literally made their whole thing about, you know, the way it looks. Yeah. Keep calm and carry on. [00:59:22] Speaker B: Me and Chelsea was a vibe main. [00:59:23] Speaker A: And Chelsea was a. Well, yeah, yeah. [00:59:26] Speaker B: Season one and two were great. [00:59:27] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Jamie. Epicness. I mean, they don't make them like that no more. To be honest, I'm not really into, like, British TV culture these days. I really was very immersed in it, like, in my teens, but not anymore. [00:59:50] Speaker B: Really. What did you watch? [00:59:51] Speaker A: And I watched Netflix. [00:59:52] Speaker B: No, I. I mean previously. [00:59:54] Speaker A: Oh, before. Name it. Joy Shaw, Tawi, Made in Chelsea, all of it. [01:00:01] Speaker B: I think I only probably watched Made in Chelsea. [01:00:04] Speaker A: Really? [01:00:04] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:00:05] Speaker A: Oh, wow. I watched it all. Big Brother when it was on Channel. [01:00:10] Speaker B: Five, not Channel four. [01:00:13] Speaker A: When it was on Channel five. [01:00:16] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah. [01:00:18] Speaker A: What's that? What else did I watch? Oh, I used to. Not used to. Well, I guess used to. I used to love BBC3. They had dope stuff on BBC3. Really, really cool stuff on BBC3. And then like, Thursday nights would be like Big Bang Theory. [01:00:36] Speaker B: I used to love Big Bang Theory. [01:00:37] Speaker A: Like, around, like, eight or seven. [01:00:38] Speaker B: So that's not a British comedy, though. [01:00:40] Speaker A: True, true, true. They used to have, like. Oh, you remember that Conversations with a. With an idiot. The idiot one that Ricky Gervais used to do. Ah, good show. Okay, what else? Obviously, I didn't really watch the UK Office when I kind of started. I started with the American one, so I didn't really go back. What other British shows that I used to watch? Obviously, Love Island. OG Love Island. I was loving that. What else, what else, what else? What else? The only ways. Real Housewives. [01:01:21] Speaker B: Yeah, And I've watched that still. [01:01:22] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Them Londoners. The. The. The. The Wags, the Cheshires. And there was one also in London as well. Yeah. And the Royals on E. I used to watch Royals. Not the one on Netflix. The one in E. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What else did I used to watch? Precision shows. I forget. I used to. I love BBC one, though. You know what needs to come back. Kin needs to come back. Thank you very much. BBC. Kin needs to come back. Actually, no, it's. I think it's an Irish show. Yes. This is my pledge to Irish television. Please, please, please Please bring back Charlie Cox. Please. Please, I beg you. I need. I need the God of calendars to align so that everyone is free at the same time. They can come back for the new season, because that would be amazing. That show is so good. It's so good. I can't wait. Like, there has to be a new season. I'm sorry. There has to be. It's like. It's about, like, a family, a crime family, like, based in Ireland, and they're up to no good and they're selling drugs and stuff, obviously, and it's their life. It's a slow burn. It's kind of like the pacing, I'd say, is like the Fall. [01:02:46] Speaker B: The Fall is a good series. [01:02:47] Speaker A: The Fall is a good series. It's a very good series. There was, like, a reemergence of, like, people, like, discovering it, and I was like, yeah, it needs, like, it needs to get the respect that it deserves because. Oh, my goodness. I don't know what was going on in that last season, but, yeah, it's good. [01:03:04] Speaker B: Okay. [01:03:05] Speaker A: Yeah, you read it. Is it mine? That was mine. No, no, that was. I know. Sorry. Sorry. Onto the next one. Okay. This is an. Am I the asshole? Am I the asshole for telling my husband I won't be going to his birthday dinner since he asked if I would leave early Anyway, for context, I will be 38 weeks pregnant on my husband's birthday this year? The previous week, I reluctantly allowed his sister to pick my daughter up from school so she could spend the day with her and his parents. She does half days still. I'm thinking, that's the daughter. I reluctantly. I say reluctantly because they have continuously crossed parental boundaries in the past, but that's a different story. It had been a while, and she loves them, and I truly want them to have them. Oh, okay. And I truly want them to have a relationship. So I gave it another go anyway. My husband and I went to pick her up at his parent. At his parents. And while there, his sister asked what he was doing for his birthday coming up. I had asked him a number of times already what he wanted to do. He had thrown out some ideas for us to do as a family as well, but he never decided on anything. So he says he doesn't have any. He doesn't have plans. She asked if he wanted her to make him dinner at her apartment. Then he said, yeah, that sounds good. It would be a family dinner. His parents, her partner, and our family. Oh, good. Tonight he said that we could drive separately because he doesn't Want to leave early. He asked me at dinner if I would leave early with our daughter so I could put her to bed. [01:04:55] Speaker B: Very assumptious. [01:04:57] Speaker A: He wants to stay and drink and smoke and be up late. This majorly upset me because this whole pregnancy has not felt like a partnership whatsoever. He only made. He only made one of my several. Oh ultrasounds. I'm over 35, so get a good amount of them. Work almost every weekend voluntarily versus making plans with my daughter. And I puts off some. Puts off some doing things I physically cannot do for the nursery until the third trimester I've been asking him to do. Wait, put us. Put up doing things I physically cannot do for the nursery until the third trimester I've been asking him to do since the first. Oh, okay. I've also asked him to look into ways he can support me during. During birth and not a single Google search has been made to this effect. I'm not sure if I'm being the crazy pregnant lady, but it certainly feels like he just wants to do whatever he wants without any regards to me carrying his child. He told me separately. He told me desperately. Oh, he told me desperately wanted. [01:06:11] Speaker B: Carrying his childhood. He told me he desperately wanted. [01:06:13] Speaker A: Wanted. Right. That's. [01:06:15] Speaker B: That's what she meant. [01:06:15] Speaker A: Yeah. I was fine with one. Okay. Our birthdays are close. The baby's due date is only two days after mine, so I'll be 30 weeks for my birthday if she doesn't decide to arrive before then. So for my birthday, I don't get to do anything but be pregnant and wait for the baby. It will be nice to feel like he wants to spend this special occasion with me slash my daughter and I. He clearly is not empathetic to be to the fact that I can't go out and do these things for the period for this. For this period of time. So to be told to go home. He. He's been hurtful, I think is what she means. I told him that in that case I don't even want to be there. And she, my daughter and I aren't going to dinner. Honestly, I would not be in the mood to celebrate and just be upset anyway. But it does constantly feel like as much as he claims to be a family guy, spending quality time with us doesn't matter to him. [01:07:21] Speaker B: What was the question again? [01:07:23] Speaker A: Am I the asshole for telling my husband I wouldn't be going to his birthday dinner since he asked if I would leave early anyway? [01:07:30] Speaker B: That was very presumptuous with him. Very presumptuous. Okay, I hear she's tired and she's pregnant. But not even the curt. You're just like, do you want to come home with you? Because you're like, you're almost. She's literally in her third trimester. She said, like, she's ready to give birth as soon as possible. Very presumptuous. [01:07:52] Speaker A: She will be. [01:07:54] Speaker B: She will be in the surgery that she is until the sartres. Currently. [01:08:12] Speaker A: No, I don't actually know. I think what I'm picking up here is this bit where, for context, I will be 38 weeks pre pregnant on my husband's birthday. [01:08:21] Speaker B: Yeah. And the part that I was looking at, where has it gone? [01:08:26] Speaker A: Is him putting off doing stuff for the nursery until she was into her third trimester. But that doesn't mean she's 38 weeks. So she'll be 38 weeks during his birthday. She'll be 40 weeks for hers. [01:08:37] Speaker B: Yeah. So she's in her third trimester. Yeah. So she. Yeah. I think it's very presumptuous and the fact that you don't want to go home with her knowing that she's has to do all these things by herself as a very heavily pregnant woman. As she said, it's not empathetic. You're not empathetic. If they could have had the dinner at their house and a sister could have cooked there instead, that way she didn't have to leave. She can literally, when bedtime comes, they can tuck the girl, the daughter to bed and then if she does feel tired, she'll go upstairs and can continue to do the celebrations downstairs. [01:09:16] Speaker A: True. But I. I think this was just the last straw. I think this has been bubbling up. [01:09:25] Speaker B: What was? Him not being there, choosing to work. [01:09:29] Speaker A: Like she doesn't feel like she has a partner. [01:09:31] Speaker B: No, that makes sense. [01:09:32] Speaker A: She feels like she's all. All in this on her own. [01:09:35] Speaker B: But I wonder what convinced her to have the second child. [01:09:37] Speaker A: He did. [01:09:39] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:09:40] Speaker A: And he's. And it's this second child that he's not even, you know, carrying his weight. However the baby's here, I'll say leave it for now. Her mates are crazy. They're crazy. I wouldn't say she's the. [01:09:58] Speaker B: No, I don't think she is. But I do think she. She's rapidly say that her husband's not being empathetic. [01:10:03] Speaker A: I think she's rightfully hurt that he's assuming that she wouldn't want to celebrate with him or like just spend time with him. Yeah. [01:10:11] Speaker B: Because she did say she's prompted him. Like, what you want to do, like, anything small, anything big, like, just let me know in advance. [01:10:17] Speaker A: And, like, the sister was like, oh, let me go for it. I was like, oh, yeah, that's not a great idea. And she was like, I swear I asked you what you wanted to do. And she probably also feels like, oh, she's doing so much and he doesn't appreciate it. I don't make any decisions now. Let the baby come, and if he's not going to help, toss him out. You can go live with a sister and her partner. That's true. Yeah. That's all I've got to say. [01:10:52] Speaker B: Red light, green light. [01:10:53] Speaker A: Ah, yes. Actually, no. [01:10:58] Speaker B: No. [01:10:58] Speaker A: Yeah. Love is mine. [01:11:01] Speaker B: Okay. [01:11:05] Speaker A: The weddings, obviously, only two couples got married, thank God. Ashley and Tyler. They got married. [01:11:15] Speaker B: Unfortunately. [01:11:16] Speaker A: Unfortunately. I only. You said they were together. They're still together. [01:11:20] Speaker B: What I see on. On Ashley's live. Yes. She had a life, and she said. [01:11:25] Speaker A: That they're still together or that they're still married or that they're still together. They're still together in a really, like, as a couple. [01:11:31] Speaker B: I didn't know what. I don't know what she meant, but she said the words, we are still together, so interpret that as you wish. [01:11:37] Speaker A: So it's likely she knew the whole thing then. Maybe. [01:11:40] Speaker B: We don't know for sure. We don't know if she knew until after they were married or we don't know the depth of their conversations off camera. [01:11:47] Speaker A: This is true. This is true. This is. Is true. [01:11:49] Speaker B: But nonetheless, Tyler is still the reddest of red flags I stand by this. And he has no business deceiving a woman and lying the way he did. [01:11:58] Speaker A: That's a. It's a big pill to swallow. But, hey, she's got three kids. More power to them and more to come. Because, you know, they want kids like a year or so after. That was what they said. Right? They want more. Garrett and Taylor, your favorite couple. Yeah, I know. I'm very optimistic. I'm really hoping that when they're still together, obviously, it'll be very sad if they weren't. I don't really have anything to say. All good. [01:12:29] Speaker B: Yeah. They look happy so far. [01:12:30] Speaker A: I mean, the only little thing that they had was him messaging the ex. [01:12:33] Speaker B: But it is what it is. Well, he did lie. [01:12:36] Speaker A: It's not what it is. He did lie and he really shouldn't have. Hopefully he's learned his lesson and, you know, he's, you know, forthcoming going forward because my baby girl here. Don't do that to Taylor. Don't do that to My girl Taylor. I don't know her, but she's like, girl, do that to her. [01:12:54] Speaker B: I'm glad. [01:12:55] Speaker A: I'm so glad. Oh, my God. We're talking about Hannah. And Nick. And Nick. [01:12:59] Speaker B: I'm so glad you're this. [01:13:01] Speaker A: I've never seen anyone more incompatible in my entire life. That's so funny. And it's the way he never actually came out to actually be like, you are actually being a bitch to me. He did, but not really. [01:13:18] Speaker B: No. [01:13:18] Speaker A: He was. No, because he still did the whole. Yeah. You're still kind of, you know. [01:13:21] Speaker B: Oh, what's that? [01:13:23] Speaker A: I think I've got a lash in my eye. Part of me. Yeah. I'm glad it didn't end up well. Is it. Is it good to be. To say that it's positive that someone. Something didn't end up happening for someone? [01:13:43] Speaker B: I think it is in this circumstance. I think if they had gotten together, they would become very, like, toxic towards each other. [01:13:52] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, Absolutely. Okay, that's good. But, yeah, good that. That didn't up going, oh, Maron, Rameses. [01:14:00] Speaker B: Ramses. [01:14:01] Speaker A: Ramses. Where's Moses? It's not the same. It's not the same name. It's just every time I hear it, I always remember, like, is it the same name? I actually don't know. But anyway, yeah, I remember, like, Rameses from the Bible. Moses's brother. Is it Moses or Moses's. Moses. [01:14:20] Speaker B: Moses's brother. [01:14:21] Speaker A: Yeah. That's Aaron, adoptive brother. [01:14:29] Speaker B: Thank you. [01:14:30] Speaker A: I was like, which Ramses was his brother? Wow. That's why I was like, wow. But, yeah, that. Ramses let my girl go. He did let her go at the end. He did. And, Marissa, I beg you, please, I need you to be like this with the man. Take off those roasted tech glasses. I needed to come off. [01:15:01] Speaker B: She didn't do anything wrong. [01:15:02] Speaker A: She did. She didn't do anything wrong. But, Lord, she was in love. [01:15:06] Speaker B: Louis blind. [01:15:10] Speaker A: For her, for Marissa. I will agree on to the next red light, green light, red light, green light, red light, green light first. Cause thank you. Thank you. Anyway. All right, so this week's red light, green light is. You know, she's gonna write me on this. You need to get here. Sorry, I'm just looking at the time. Midnight. Yeah. [01:15:41] Speaker B: Okay. [01:15:41] Speaker A: We're almost there. All right, so this week's red light, green light is you. Season one. Not season one. Just season one. Okay, so we'll be racing the characters if they're red, if they're green, or if they're amber. Red light, green light. Just Sounds cooler. [01:15:56] Speaker B: It does. [01:15:58] Speaker A: Peach. [01:16:01] Speaker B: She's a problematic girl. [01:16:03] Speaker A: She's a walking red flag. Red. Ashamed she died. I was going to say maybe green light as a friend, but red light as a friend? [01:16:16] Speaker B: I can't think she had any redeeming qualities. [01:16:19] Speaker A: Yeah, I honestly was. I was. She wasn't. She wanted the best for Beck, if we're being honest. [01:16:24] Speaker B: She did. Just the way she went about it wasn't great. [01:16:27] Speaker A: Sick and twisted. [01:16:29] Speaker B: She was in love with her. [01:16:30] Speaker A: Thicker twisted. [01:16:32] Speaker B: She was in love with her sick and twisted. And she just didn't know how to show her love. [01:16:37] Speaker A: Yeah. Poor girl. And then she gets deaded. And then she gets by. You know our man Joe. Bless. Next. Ethan. [01:16:50] Speaker B: Ethan is just a cool guy. He just, you know, I don't know. [01:16:54] Speaker A: I think it was a bit problematic as well. But he'll get a number. [01:16:58] Speaker B: Problematic? [01:16:59] Speaker A: Yeah. How can you not know that there's a whole serial killer in your basement of where you work? [01:17:04] Speaker B: Just never went there. Never ventured into the stores. There's not every area. [01:17:11] Speaker A: Also, there was that relationship he had as well that was very weird. He was dating someone. I forget who. And it was. It was all very weird. Didn't like it. I give him a number. You him? A green. [01:17:24] Speaker B: I think a green. [01:17:25] Speaker A: Who's next? Claudia. Paco's mother. Zajogi. [01:17:33] Speaker B: Claudia. [01:17:35] Speaker A: Is there anything worse than red? Very complicated woman. But red. [01:17:42] Speaker B: Red indeed. [01:17:43] Speaker A: Ron. The reddest of them all. He is bathed in the blood of his victims. That type of red. Deep, deep, deep, deep, deep red. [01:17:55] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:17:56] Speaker A: Definitely deserve to die. [01:17:57] Speaker B: Pack him. It's a number. [01:18:02] Speaker A: What did that child do to you? [01:18:04] Speaker B: He saw someone in a basement. And all because a man had after man that was abusing his mom and him. He said I let it slide. No, that's an amber. [01:18:14] Speaker A: That looks like a groom flag to me. Hey, look. And what did he do? He ran like anybody would do. He ran, but he kept the north coast. Wouldn't you GR flag to me? [01:18:33] Speaker B: He didn't even try to offer the girl like a key or what, anything. He just looked at her and said, cool, cool, cool. Did a U turn. Yeah. And then he was like, Jill's my friend. And then he. [01:18:49] Speaker A: That's a friend you need to have. He had a friend? Indeed. Yeah. [01:18:54] Speaker B: I'm giving him a number. [01:18:55] Speaker A: His friend was in need and he was a friend indeed. I stand by what I said. [01:19:02] Speaker B: See? [01:19:02] Speaker A: Keon? [01:19:02] Speaker B: And green. [01:19:03] Speaker A: He's a green flag. [01:19:04] Speaker B: Okay. [01:19:04] Speaker A: He ain't no snitch. I am a snitch though. But he Ain't Annika. [01:19:11] Speaker B: I can't remember. [01:19:12] Speaker A: Social media friendy. Cutesy with the social media on. [01:19:17] Speaker B: I remember Lynn. Lynn was also, I think, his friend. [01:19:21] Speaker A: Yes, they were all friends. Peach. [01:19:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:19:23] Speaker A: All of them. [01:19:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:19:24] Speaker A: I don't remember all the friends. Red flag, to be honest. Maybe Annika, she kind of redeemed herself. I think so. Maybe Amber. Maybe. You know who I should have added that. Is that season. Is that the right season? No, I think it's the wrong season. [01:19:51] Speaker B: Okay. [01:19:52] Speaker A: Sorry. Where they went to the country. Country. To the countryside. That's season three. I beg. Excuse me. I'm thinking of someone else. On to the next. Oh, Paul Leahy, Lee. Le. Le. [01:20:10] Speaker B: Le. [01:20:11] Speaker A: Anyway, the professor. That assorted beck. Red flag. Dr. Nikki. [01:20:19] Speaker B: Dr. Nick was the typist, right? [01:20:20] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Red flag. [01:20:23] Speaker B: We have been Benji. [01:20:24] Speaker A: And then we have victim number one. Red flag. [01:20:32] Speaker B: Didn't get Benji even get released. But he had to, like, stay away for, like, for life. [01:20:36] Speaker A: No, he killed Benji. [01:20:37] Speaker B: Who did he let go? [01:20:38] Speaker A: Oh, that was love season. That was season two. That was la. He let that one go. [01:20:44] Speaker B: The one that gave me passport. [01:20:45] Speaker A: Yeah. And went. Was it Bali or something? [01:20:47] Speaker B: New girlfriend. [01:20:48] Speaker A: Yeah. And then he's sent Joe like a video of himself or something. Yeah, yeah. And we have the trinity in season one. The women. Let's start with Candace. Just based off of season one. [01:21:07] Speaker B: Okay. Off season one, I think she was a green flag. There's nothing that we know of her in season one that in season one. [01:21:15] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:21:15] Speaker B: That shows her to be negative. She was just a girl that loves books and the outdoors. That's it. [01:21:21] Speaker A: That's it. [01:21:22] Speaker B: And then she was unfortunate enough to fathom to break up with a man. And the man says, I don't want to break up. So he. She was like, I'll eternalize our love, and goes off to kill her. So then she's a green flag in the end. Season one. [01:21:35] Speaker A: Just only season one, though. And then Karen. [01:21:40] Speaker B: Karen. I don't remember much of her because I don't. Yeah. [01:21:43] Speaker A: I give her an Amber. She's very jelly. What? Very jealous of Beck. Rightfully so. Amber still Beck. Red flag. [01:21:53] Speaker B: Red. She has poor judgment. Does not make her a red flag. [01:21:58] Speaker A: Because she has bad judgment. She gets a red flag. What on earth were with those friends? [01:22:04] Speaker B: I'm gonna give you an Amber flag. She was insecure. [01:22:07] Speaker A: Okay. Amber. I'll change it. I'll give her a number. [01:22:09] Speaker B: She was insecure because she. Out of her friendship group. I'll say she had a. [01:22:15] Speaker A: She was the poorest of the poor. Poorest of the poor. [01:22:20] Speaker B: No, but she was. [01:22:21] Speaker A: Humble beginning, humble beginnings. She died poor. She became rich after she died. [01:22:30] Speaker B: See? A humble beginning. [01:22:32] Speaker A: The poorest of the. The poorest of the poorest. [01:22:35] Speaker B: Yeah. She had poor judgment and she was very insecure. So I'm gonna give her an Amber. It wasn't like she was a victim of her circumstances. [01:22:42] Speaker A: She really was. And her daddy didn't help either. That's who's missing, her daddy. [01:22:51] Speaker B: How does it go? He's a captain after getting rehab. Goes and gets her whole family and disowns his own daughter, but says I'll give you like a monthly payment as long as you stay away from my family. Off. [01:23:07] Speaker A: She has to go to the. Was it the Dickens Charles Dickens festival thing and dress up and dress up and everything. And obviously she dresses as constitute. And you know what? You know who else is a red flag? That son. [01:23:22] Speaker B: Which one? [01:23:24] Speaker A: Her stepbrother. [01:23:25] Speaker B: Ah. It was very dickish. [01:23:28] Speaker A: Asshole. Yeah, but it's rather unfortunate, you know, I actually, when I didn't know how the story was going. I loved Beck. And then she started getting annoying. [01:23:42] Speaker B: How. [01:23:45] Speaker A: It was when she found out about Jerome and I said no police. Did she go to police? [01:23:57] Speaker B: No. [01:24:01] Speaker A: Not report or anything. Well, to be honest, she doesn't have proof. But still go to police, get it written down somewhere that he's a widow and that you think he's a stalker and that you think he killed your best friend. And she should have played the game, she should have loved it. And then, you know, self defensed it. She tried to, but she couldn't do it properly and he couldn't believe her, I guess. She did try. She really did try actually. But it's so sad that she ended up passing away. So Mr. Mooney. [01:24:43] Speaker B: Red automatic grudge. [01:24:48] Speaker A: Like. Like the fire and the hell that he's burning in. And the main man himself. [01:24:53] Speaker B: He's a hard compliment show it's a compliment. Complicated man. [01:24:57] Speaker A: Green flag, Joe. I'm joking. I am joking. [01:25:03] Speaker B: He was abandoned and then he had to go to Mr. Mooney who forced him to the cage. That's how this whole thing started. So he's just a victim. [01:25:11] Speaker A: He is. But still red. Still red. You can be a victim and work through your problems. [01:25:18] Speaker B: You don't have to repeat the cycles. As I say, continue the cycle. [01:25:24] Speaker A: And then he went to therapy with Meg. That. That you know. But you know what? He tried, Joe. Tried what? [01:25:33] Speaker B: Do he be a better person? [01:25:34] Speaker A: He tried to be a better person and then he realized that the person his shadow be a better person for is diddling her therapist didn't have to, you know, kill her and, you know, frame him for her murder, but still, it happens. These things happen. But, yeah, no, he's the reddest of them all. My goodness. Joe. Joe. Jojo. You did it. Joe. You did it. And that is the end of Solomon Grundy. Thank you very much for listening to our show. Look at that. My bubble has lasted to the end. Asmr. Very cute to me. I see how. [01:26:26] Speaker B: I see how we have dampeners this week. [01:26:33] Speaker A: See how I drank when I wasn't meant to or didn't drink or whatever. Didn't spill. But anyway, thank you very much for listening. I have been your most gracious host. [01:26:47] Speaker B: And I've been here to entertain her. [01:26:49] Speaker A: To entertain me. Yes, ma'am. [01:26:50] Speaker B: Wow. [01:26:51] Speaker A: I don't know. [01:26:52] Speaker B: Were you not entertained? [01:26:53] Speaker A: I don't know. Are you not entertained? Are you not? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. [01:26:58] Speaker B: Well, we shall find out. [01:26:59] Speaker A: You need to. [01:27:00] Speaker B: What? [01:27:00] Speaker A: I don't know. Are you? Are you. Are you not entertained? I feel like you laughed a lot. [01:27:04] Speaker B: I. I did. [01:27:05] Speaker A: But why were you falling asleep as well? Like, halfway, like, now? Bless you. Your battery is literally, like. Like, I could feel it. [01:27:11] Speaker B: No, my energy just go down. It depletes very quickly after, like, a certain time. [01:27:17] Speaker A: Okay, thank you and goodbye. Oh, a. No, like this. That's off. [01:27:23] Speaker B: I know. [01:27:26] Speaker A: All right.